Dear
Professor and Classmates,
Compare and contrast the
Loving Kindness exercise and the Subtle mind exercise. Explain your experience
including the benefits, frustrations etc.
 I
will start with I enjoyed both the exercises and both helped me to relax and
gather my thoughts. The loving-kindness exercise is an approach to loving
yourself and allows that love of self to be given to others. This is not a
self-love that is boastful but rather a genuine love and caring for self and others.
This exercise helped to relax my thoughts but I still found it difficult to
keep my mind from wandering. The subtle mind exercise, however, seemed to
really help my focus which allowed me more control over my mental movements. I
still continued to have thought, feeling and images but these mental movements
were more controlled during this exercise; I had mental movements but they did
not draw my attention but rather came and went. There were times when my mind
was clear and my focus was only on the movements of my chest. Overall, both
exercise had a calming benefit, but the subtle mind exercise allows me more
control over my mental movements of thought, feelings, and images (Dacher, 2006). 
Discuss the connection of the
spiritual wellness to mental and physical wellness. Explain how the connection
is manifested in your personal life.
The
evolution toward a higher level of development, complexity, and capacity is
essentially a movement from body to mind to spirit; a process of development
that applies to each of the four aspects of life. It is a generic pattern for
the evolutionary unfolding of our human potential and integral health. This
developmental movement from body to mind to spirit is a shift from the realm of
physical, with the emphasis on survival, instinct, and self to the more subtle
realm of the mental with the focus on ideas, intention, and interconnectedness
to the most spiritual realm of awareness, wisdom, and oneness (Dacher, 2006).
I
have always been into physical health and taking care of my body. During my
teens and twenties this was easily accomplish but once I got married and
started a family the process became more difficult to manage. Life got very
busy and I began the physical wellness roller coaster. I have never done much
with managing the mental side of things because I did not understand how to go
about it. I realize the damage that stress can cause but had no real method for
controlling it. However, the exercises learned in this class have opened my
eyes to what is available and how clear my mind can be if I allow it.
Spiritually, I am catholic and have been attending mass all of my life but I
have got many things to learn in my psychospiritual development. I have always
believed that the body, mind, and spirit are one and work as one, but
essentially my journey of mental and spiritual wellness is just beginning. The
development has started and it is up to me to keep the process growing and
developing.
Ed
Busche
References
Dacher, E. S. (2006). Integral Health: The Path to
Human Flourishing. Laguna Beach, CA: Basic Health Publications, Inc.
 
Hi Ed,
ReplyDeleteBoth the loving-kindness and the subtle mind exercises are extremely relaxing and create a sense of calm and peacefulness. You touch on the fact that in the past you were very much into wellness and that life changes made that focus difficult. You are describing what everyone feels at some point. Somehow when life changes in beautiful ways like marriage or children, we tend to put ourselves second. Why is that anyway? It is so hard to emit love and kindness to others when we are not doing that for ourselves. Best of luck to you with returning to put yourself first!
Stevi Gelinas